Part 1: Reflect upon yourself
One criticism about the MBTI is perfectly explained this way, "When we put people in boxes where they can only be one or another, we miss the opportunity to see people as diverse as they are"
What do you think about this statement? Does this ring true to your personality type or do you think that it perfectly describes you? What are some of your strengths that the MBTI highlights? Do you believe the certain MBTI types are viewed more positively than others? Why? Does society makes us think one way or the other, or is it possible for us to be so diverse that we do not fit into one category?
I think the end of our discussion on Wednesday definitely is an example of the boxing people up. It definitely seems like we were harboring some sort of resentment towards group projects in particular. I know I personally contributed to the discussion and I am in fact a Judger. So I judge. What of it? Judgers seem to have a leg up with industrialized society because that system works on a timeline of invention and production. Many people who are P's are placed in the "artistic" category and told to focus their energy on something without a deadline. We could be missing out on some incredible ideas just because we want that information now instead of four days later, even if both those days are before the deadline. I am completely generalizing a P type person, but if someone is classified as something they may not realize their full potential.
In terms of boxing people we all have to remember that we all got here the same way so we all have it together. I believe someone mentioned this during part of the J vs. P discussion and it really is the heart of the matter. When you box someone up they automatically feel protective of their box and what it stands for. Judgers would really not like to hear that we are stuffy and in-flexible robots. When boxes are given people restrict their ways of thinking.
I prefer to think of these "types" as the tools we use most frequently. Its kind of like we've been given a large and complex house that never quite comes together because new pieces are added all the time and we just use different skills to put that thing together.
Now for the focus on ME. ENFJ. A dog. It does makes sense. I like to please people and I hate making mistakes or disappointing people (to the point of not trying new things unless I am going to be good at them very quickly). Like a dog social situations tend to hype me up. I love planing parties or hanging out in big groups. Not to say that I do not enjoy one on one time but I find large groups so exciting that you can lose your negative emotions in the crowd. In terms of intuition and the big picture/future possibilities I have always been a champion day-dreamer and imaginer. MY mother always described me as hyper-sensitive. While I have reined in the crying, the personal offenses I feel are still present. Just like a dog is sure you hate them when you raise your voice about their barking, I recoil from criticism even if it constructive. Predictability is most definitely something I appreciate. While I have worked at kids camps that value creativity, energy, and spontaneity there needs o be a schedule and expectations. I am a situational judger. When it comes to fun nights with no plans I am fine, but I'd like to know that we are indeed hanging out.
I do think understanding people's tendencies will make me more accepting of their different working and living styles.
4 comments:
I agree completely with your statement about classifying others may result in not reaching their full potential. I also liked how you brought up the fact that when you're shoved into a box, you are protective of your box. Totally true. You did a great job of depicting both your positive and negative characteristics in a positive light.
I agree that people who are trapped in a box are protective of themselves. However, they aren't as different as other judgers, perceivers or any other trait. We all are uniquely different which is why it's important accept other people's differences.
I like how you compared tendencies to that of the animal that was on the board, the dog. I think you did a great job of stepping away from yourself and analysis. I encourage you also to call to mind all the wonderful attributes a dog has too, like loyalty and a fun-loving, happy, and hard-working personality.
I think you made a really good observation of how people seem to get protective of their tendencies or categories. I think its especially interesting since everyone isn't all or nothing, and I think you made good points in looking at both sides of the situation!
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